A happy family, is but an earlier Heaven...

Thursday, November 10, 2011

Remember when I was good at blogging?

I. am. sorry.
My life is chaos and I am struggling with keeping up with this blog these last four months. Sometimes I'll start a post, work on it for a little bit, and then chaos piles in, so I forget about it and by the time I get back to blogging, it's no longer relevant.
So here I am playing catch up again, which is usually my wimpy way of saying...here are some pictures of what I've been up to because I'm too lazy to go into details.
Feel free to scroll through and only peek at the stuff that interests you cause with so much to catch up on I would probably do the same thing.


AUGUST AND HAWAII


FIRST was August. We went to Hawaii with Dan and Kelsey. Here are some pictures of some of my most favorite moments there.

First and most important, is the food we ate. Am I right food people?

HAWAII FOOD HIGHLIGHTS.....

We ate the BIGGEST plate of pancakes that I've ever seen in my entire life. Naturally we didn't finish it, since it was as wide as a large pizza and there was a stack of them.





Nico's cafe at the pier. (Best tuna steaks in the world):



Boston Style Pizza


We also found authentic Mexican food


The most garlicky shrimp on the planet, sold out of a trailer...and wildly popular (which is why we tried it) even though it pretty much ruined garlic for me for the rest of my pregnancy:




Origional Hawaiian Shaved Ice...which I LOVED. I still crave this.

The Puka Dog. An amazing hot dog place on the strip in Waikiki.

A fresh seafood feast the the men cooked for us because they love us and are awesome. They even set the table:

We also found some really really good Italian food, with a variety of amazing pastas.

That is me eating a squid that was in my seafood pasta because I'm so disgusting and awesome.
So that was food.

PLACES WE LIKED AND SAW were

Hiking Diamondhead


It's no secret that I love hiking, even while pregnant. Since I was only close to 6 months here and still in my second trimester, (the easiest) it was no problem. Unfortunately it was a really hot day and we got there at the same time as a huge bus full of asian tourists, so Scott wasn't really happy, and at one point I thought he actually might kill me for making him finish the hike instead of quitting halfway through. He hates being hot, and he hates tunnels like this one:

If you were hot and tired and feeling claustrophobic because you can't see the end of the tunnel or how long it would go, you'd probably want to kill the person forcing you to finish too, HOWEVER we did get some pretty cool pictures out of the experience, and I get to share them with you now. :)



Scott wanting to punch me





Waikiki Beach. A little crowded for my taste, but worth seeing at least once:

Hanauma Bay. LOVED this place.



The Marriot Ko'Olina beach club resort. Courtesy of my parents and their time share:




North Shore...we went beach hopping and snorkeling all along the coast there. Also we all agreed that the prettier beaches are on that side of the island.




Shopping in the flea market at Aloha Stadium. The boys hated this, but it was a blast for Kelsey and I.


Pearl Harbor





Manoa falls hike in the rain forest. You can't see it in the pictures but it was pouring rain the whole time:



Hawaii LDS Temple:



LDS Polyneisian Culture Center:

(These ones below are pictures of pictures so the quality sucks, but they wanted to charge almost 40 bucks for these stupid things, and it wasn't worth it, so enjoy)




We also went to a Bhuddist Wak (temple) that was nearby to look around. Actually just Kelsey and I went, the boys weren't interested. They listened to sports radio talk in the car the whole time because they actually found that more interesting.







Lanikai Beach. Where we spent our last day. Also turned out to be the least crowded and the sand was the most white and powdery there.


ANYWAY that is seriously only about 25% of the pictures we took, but I'm strapped for time. I've already taken an hour just to post all those, so MOVING ON.




SEPTEMBER/ CRYSTALS FIRST DAY OF KINDERGARTEN

That, for me at least, was my highlight of September. My little girl started School!! I can't believe how grown up she is, and how beautiful she's getting every day. We are SO proud of her!


Looking a little nervous:

Hugging her little brother goodbye

Embarking on a new journey:

Love this girl!!

Getting in line
Anyway, she is doing great. She was a little nervous about Mommy and Daddy not being with her while she was at school for that first week, but now she loves it and can't wait to go. Every day she tells us what she's learned, who she's played with and often complains when she's NOT in school and about how much she wants to be there and have fun and play games. She's already learned a lot of reading and math, and has homework every day. Also she went on her first field trip already and got to explore a fire truck, so school has opened up a whole world of excitement for her. Also, it gives me a small break during the day and Seth and I bond during that time. Though he misses her when she's gone, he also likes the one on one attention he gets, and since he and Crystal seem to scream either out of happiness, anger, or play all day lately whenever they're together, it keeps the noise to a minimum. Seriously...they are SO loud when they're together these days.
Anyway, honestly, that just about the only significant thing I can remember happening in September. The only other thing that I remember is that Scott and I got engaged on September 16th seven years ago, so we were feeling pretty cool for being together for seven years even if it's not a wedding anniversary yet. I'm racking my brain and can't remember anything else, either because my pregnancy is making my brain fuzzy, or nothing exciting really happened.

OCTOBER: ITRI WIFE GIRLS NIGHT OUT, GOING TO CONCERTS AND HALLOWEEN PARTIES WITH FRIENDS AND FAMILY

During the first weekend in October those of us who live close together and married to an Itri decided we needed a break from the boys and their testosterone for a weekend and remember what it's like to be girls again. So the four of us went up to park city to spend the weekend in a cute little hotel, watch chick flicks, do manicures and pedi's and have girl time without husbands and kids for just a night. We missed our men and babies, but it was nice to do our own thing and bond as Itri wives. Especially because we went shopping for the entire day the next day and didn't have to worry about anybody in the group being bored. The Itri Wives need to go shopping together more often!
Cute little kitchen!
We were able to keep it warm without any husbands turning the place into an ice box!

Looking for places to eat:
Breakfast!
Dani's little snowman!

Other stuff that happened in October...


Scott took me to the Foo Fighters concert that next week. Scott and I have a history of going to a rock concert together every time I've been pregnant. With my Crystal it was Green Day. With Seth, it was Jimmy Eat World. With this little guy, it was the Foo Fighters. I was really happy about this because the Foo Fighters came around in my generation growing up, and not only have they managed to keep pumping out good music and make it into the rock and roll hall of fame, but I have a lot of memories with a bunch of their songs that will always mean something to me. Even Scott could connect because one of his all time favorite songs (Everlong) was written by them, so it was really cool for him to hear it live, from the amazing artist that is Dave Ghrol.

It was nice to get away from everything and be on a date. We even had a really late night meal at a local Village Inn after the concert ended at midnight. Scott did an amazing job at surprising me with these tickets.


Halloween!

Halloween was fun this year. I grew up in a family that loves to get all dressed up and crazy and make a big deal out of Halloween. Maybe it's because we're all immature, or maybe it's because we all have a flare for going over the top, but it's always been a favorite holiday of mine, and so I get all excited to dress up my kids every year.
ALSO since there was no baseball game, we Itri Wives were able to get the husbands on the wagon of having an actual Halloween party this year, not just a "Lets watch the game and sort of dress up for Halloween" this year. Hurray for parties!!
Anyway, back to dressing up my kids.
Crystal was kind of a mix this year. Her dress was like Glenda, the good witch of the North from the movie of wizard of Oz, but sometimes she wanted to be Princess Aurora so she also had a long blonde wig handy and she switched back and fourth.

Seth actually invented his own costume this year. Even though he has every super hero costume possible, a month or two back he had a dream that he was flying and hanging out with all the superheroes he loves; Superman, Batman, The Green Lantern, Spiderman, the Hulk, Ironman, etc...Anyway in his dream, not only was he hanging out with them, but he was also his own superhero, "Super Sethie." So he insisted that he had to be Super Sethie for Halloween this year. He informed us that Super Sethie has spikey hair, and wears all black, including his mask and cape. He also has an "H" on his shirt. Everybody thinks "H" stands for "Hero," but "H" happens to be the only letter in his name that he can write without making mistakes, so he's really proud of it. This was the costume I came up with, and he loved it. We just printed out a fancy "H" on some iron on fabric that we picked up at a craft store. The belt came from one of his many other superhero costumes, and the rest was really easy.

We went to our first ward/neighborhood trunk or treat this year. Since we actually purchased the home we live in, we make it a point to actually attend the neighborhood activities, which we never have before. For anyone not familiar with a trunk or treat, it's like going trick or treating, except everyone parks their cars in a big parking lot and hands out candy from the trunk of their cars. Here are a couple of pictures of that:

Our spooky trunk. We went with skull/skeleton theme:


There were TONS of trunk or treaters. Crystal's candy basket was almost overflowing by the time we were done.
Below are some pics of our Halloween Party we had the same weekend. Everyone dressed up, and we played some games and had some awesome finger food. After the kids went to bed we, of course watched a scary Halloween movie. This year the movie was "Insidious" which is basically like a modern "Poltergeist", but still entertaining.

Scott and I were fat skeletons. Mine was because of a baby, and his was because of burgers and fries.

My sister and her boyfriend, a.k.a. mad scientist and crazy deranged patient


Dan and Kelsey, a.k.a. Baby and Zorro



My brother Jared and his wife Alisa, a.k.a. Two hippies with their dino baby, Issac.

Todd, Megan and Lila, a.k.a. "Starburns" (from the show 'Community'), 20's girl, and pumpkin:

My Brother Matt and his girlfriend, a.k.a. Tarzan and angel:
Scotts cousin Jason, a.k.a. Pauly D from the Jersey shore:
Group shot:
Also I didn't get a chance to get individual pictures of Courtney (Kelsey's sister) and her husband Paul and Jen (Scott's cousin) who came dressed up like Snooki from the Jersey Shore. I either spaced it or thought already got shots of them, but they are at least here int he group pic.

We also had awesome finger food!


Owl cupcakes Alisa made:
Witch hat cookies:

Eyeball deviled eggs Kelsey made:

We played games too. The first game was a guessing game to get to know the people in the group. The second was a classic in the Itri family...Mafia. Always fun to play with Itri's because they get so heated up when they argue. The third wasn't very Halloween related but still fun, and that was "Guess the 90's song" out of a audio file of the top 200 most popular songs in the nineties. For the trifecta of three points in a row, you had to guess the name of the song, the artist and the year it came out.
All the excitement wore out my little superhero.

After the kids went to bed we watched this movie. I actually really like the entertainment value I get out of this film. Both the stuff that creeps me out and the cheesy stuff that makes me laugh out loud.


So October was busy, but a lot of fun.

November.
Welp, so far not much has happened. I'm on the home stretch for this pregnancy, and missing the easiness of the second trimester like crazy. It's the little things, like not feeling like your back is going to snap in two, or being able to roll over in my sleep, or pick something up that I drop...but that's pregnancy for you. It would be nice to be able to walk without feeling like my groin will tear though. Just a little. It is what it is.

The good news is that I only have about 5 weeks less. I've already planned ahead with the doc to give birth a week before my due date, and since I've had both my previous kids over a week early without any problems, (Actually with my firstborn my water broke 2 and a half weeks early) I'm okay with scheduling it in early. In the meantime I continue to waddle, and the doc says at my height it's pretty normal to be in constant pain and not to worry. Yay.
Also, I'm still working, but only for two more weeks, because after Thanksgiving my life is going to go crazy with preparing for this baby for three weeks, including attempting to potty train my son, yet again. Seth and I go through cycles where we try, he rebels, and I take a break for a few months. He's perfectly happy to sit on the potty, and even enjoys it, but that's about it. Nothing really happens once he sits there. Yesterday by his own choice, he sat on his little potty chair in front of the TV for an hour and didn't squeeze out a drop. Then took a nap and peed everywhere. Mind you I'm not pushing him here. I made the mistake of showing him the movie 'Potty Power'. An extremely cheesy kids show that encourages kids Seth's age to be a big kid and use the potty. He loves it. He's obsessed with it, and he wants to watch it everyday. Other than that, it hasn't done much except making him insist on sitting on his potty for long periods of time and not going to the bathroom at all while on it until he gets off.
This is how I feel about my son and the toilet right now:

So for now, that's what I'm doing lately, working and potty training, slowly getting in all the Christmas shopping, because I won't have time after thanksgiving to do much shopping.
Also, in 2 weeks I'm hosting Thanksgiving at my home this year for my side of the family. So my parents and my siblings will all be coming over to our home and I have to get ready for that too. It's kind of cool being a grown up with my own house to have Thanksgiving at though, so I'm not complaining. Should be a cool Thanksgiving this year. Hopefully I'll get the pictures posted on here before the end of the month. These next two months are going to be a whirlwind. It's kind of weird to think that our new little man will officially be part of our family so soon. It's so crazy to see the differences in the personalities of my two kids already. Not just gender differences either, they are so opposite in their style, likes and personalities. Crystal is so much like her father it's scary. She argues like him, reasons like him, and deals with her problems the same way he does. Seth is actually a lot more like me personality wise. It will be interesting to see the personality that comes from this next one and fun to see what his little face looks like. Sometimes I get my hopes up and think that it's not to late to actually have a baby with dark hair and olive skin like me and Scott, since both our kids are fairer than both of us so far. People always remark on how our kids have both lighter hair and skin than Scott and I. Who knew our genetic makeup would do that? Crazy. Anyway maybe it will always do that or maybe I'll have just one that looks more Italian/Latin. Honestly I don't think so though. Not that I'm complaining, Like every parent, I think I have the cutest kids on the planet. Maybe even all the other planets too. Yes yes I think so.


I hope anyone who actually reads this has a Happy Thanksgiving!! Especially cause you care enough about me to actually read the crap I write on here. I like you most. I'm selfish like that.

Thursday, August 11, 2011

Why hello there...

So here I am catching up again. This time my excuse is a combination of being extremely busy and not being able to find my USB cord to connect my camera to the computer. So here's what we've been up to.


JULY


We celebrated half of the 4th with my family and the other half with Scotts. Unfortunately I always forget to take pictures until half the day is already over, so I only have pics of the latter half of independence day. My apologies.
Anyway, we spent the afternoon at Scott's aunt Jill's house, using her pool and hanging out. Here are some pictures of the day:


At the pool



Dani, Link, Kelsey, Dan


Scott and the kids



Dan, James and Todd enjoying the sun


Lila



Gathering on the driveway for fireworks





Seth, Crystal and Jackson



The boys playing a sports trivia game that Scott made up from the laptop



Other Stuff that happened this July was my little sister Denise's birthday



Also I got a cute new nephew, courtesy of my brother Jared, and my sister in law Alisa. His name is Issac, and he was blessed in July. He's adorable. Here is Alisa holding him with Crystal taking a peek.


We also had Scott's parents in town for the end of the month. My brother in law, Brian, graduated from school, and he came out here to see his brothers with Nick and Margie as his graduation present.

At Todd and Megan's house getting ready for an excursion:


We went up into the mountains to spend some time in the canyon. We stopped near Sundance really quick to look at some land that Nick and Margie had bought a few years ago that they plan on building on at some point. Sorry the picture is cloudy, I stayed in the car with the kids so that I wouldn't have to chase them all over the mountain, but I still took pics of them looking at it and making plans.





In my genius I decided to roll down the window. I blame my pregnancy. Here is what the land looks like.


Then they got back in the car and we drove up to Cascade Springs. It's a place up here in the Canyon that has pathway with a lot of cute little natural springs and bridges and just enjoy the mountain air.

My awesome family











More Itri Awesomeness
















Here we all are at bridal veil falls a few days later. In my pregnant genius I forgot to take a picture of the actual waterfall.




Anyway, July was a lot of fun, with a lot of craziness. It was great having family in town and hanging out with everybody.




AUGUST SO FAR

How is it already the 11th??? Where did the time go??
Anyway, for those of you who don't Facebook and haven't already heard through the grapevine, a week after my In laws left town I had my 20 week ultrasound and found out that I am having a baby BOY!!



Scott and I are really happy about this. Like I said, even back when Scott and I were engaged, that I told him we would have a Girl and two boys, in that order one day. We now will have exactly that. This is also good because neither Scott, nor I feel pressure to have a fourth child at this point since I've only had those feelings about those three. Even a few weeks before we got pregnant, I started having dreams and feelings about a little boy, and told Scott that I felt like a little boy was waiting to come into our family. I'm glad I was right and not crazy. There's more to that story, but I don't feel comfortable going into personal details online where people probably already do think I'm nuts, so I'll just leave it at that.


Here he is in his male glory:



It was next to impossible to get a good profile pic of him because he kept moving his face away from the camera. He would curl up into a ball and hide his face, and when the ultrasound technician would move the camera toward his face, he would turn his head the other way. Anyway, we finally got one with his arm up over his little head, trying to hide his face.


Then he randomly stuck up his finger, which we're told is his index finger...but it looks like something else. It makes me laugh every time I look at it.



So that's my new son. He also stops kicking the second I put my hand on my belly to try and feel him from the outside. He's either really shy, or really really stubborn. Considering who his parents are, it's probably the latter. Sometimes I'm amazed that two people as stubborn as Scott and I were able to fall in love and get married. They always say that your kids are a perfect taste of your own medicine.

We don't have an official name yet. Long story. Also related to his parents stubbornness. We've narrowed it down to two names, and can't agree which will be the first name, and which will be the middle name. I'll get back to you on that one.

We had both Crystal and Seth in the room during the ultrasound so they would be able to see our new family member with us. I had prepared both kids before hand that they might not get what they were hoping for. I was worried that Crystal would be heartbroken when she found out she wasn't having a sister and that Seth would be mad if it wasn't another brother. Luckily, Crystal has been very accepting about the whole thing, and is still really happy. When the technician made the announcement Seth jumped up and down and yelled "Now we're TWO boys!!!" He was really happy. He crawls in my lap all the time and touches my belly and tries to talk to his little brother, it's really cute. Crystal can't wait to mother him, she loves any and all babies, and is starting to like the idea of being an only girl, mom's only shopping partner, and the family princess. Scott is happy because like me, he was sort of expecting a boy anyway.

Crystal is registered for school and her schedule will be posted tomorrow. I can't BELIEVE how big my little girl is getting!! Again, she's ridiculously excited about the whole thing and already waves to her new school every time we drive by, which is often.



More good news for me and Scott? We're going to Hawaii next week. Pretty much our last vacation before life gets really complicated. Not that it already hasn't been with moving, pregnancy, both parents working, two kids and fitting in the summer's activities, but when this little guy comes life is going to get extra crazy. In December we already have our wedding anniversary, Christmas, Crystal's birthday, New years eve and now a newborn. Crazy, but life is usually better for me that way than when it's boring. Anyway, this vacation will be much needed. We can't wait, in spite of the fact that I'll be squeezing my pregnant body into a bathing suit in public. That's awesome...if by awesome I mean I may or may not have started crying at the mere thought of it. Hold me!
Seriously though, I'm just happy to take a break and relax somewhere beautiful and sunny. I'll get over the rest.